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Let's Conjure Up: Ruud Asmara and Pearle Karlina

Dear Baby Gurl,

I see that your honeymoon period is over...
lacking in communication, relationships' sinking, in your opinion..
its not the end of the world, baby gurl..
u gotta hold you head up high and say...Ive got 2 choices;
1) you chose to be with him and you will go down with him thru thick and thin
2) you can either walk away, nt having to probe and make you sad each time there isnt anything that pleases.

you chose the former, and you will be enjoying life with an adventure.
look into things positively.

u know, if you were to look at my long long time ago archives,
you will see that i have been suffering too...
long distance, when i was away and boo was stuck in singapore.
during that time, we were juz dating... it was hard.
ive made a choice to be with boo and i had to choose weda this was rite for me or not
i wud have to change my lifestyle... my manner of thinking.

upon reflection: It was, in retrospect, the happiest day of my life.

i dun like to adjourn the matter to the next day..
if i had something that i wanna solve, if i can solve it b4 i sleeep, the better
communication is vital in relationships.
i chose boo without thinkin that.
we cant communicate...but we did it on love...

of cuz in the long run it hurts..
but thats not what im tryin to tell you here baby gurl..
its juz that communication is important.
YOU gotta start and set the house rules
so they can follow..
some ppl are not good leaders, they are followers..
i see that you got a strong flower child, a certain ardor, that thirst for power; that zealousness; your vigorism, your strong disposition, that certain drive to make it work; make it happen.
and i know you can...

we cant expect much from them; that we know.

But what we can do is we have a choice:
- make it happen
- sink the boat.

the choice is yours.

bless you baby gurl..

love ya!